Reviews & Testimonials

“During one of the most challenging phases of my life, I had the privilege of working with Nicolle. I was trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship while juggling a full-time job and living under the same roof as my abuser. My mental health was at an all-time low, and I was desperately seeking a way out. Nicolle became my anchor during this tumultuous period. Her support was invaluable, and her guidance was my lifeline. With unwavering compassion and expertise, she guided me through every step of my journey. Nicolle played a crucial role in helping me find a lawyer, decipher legal documents, and strategize for my meetings with my attorney, making every hour count. What truly amazed me was Nicolle's insight into the complexities of my high-conflict spouse. She could almost anticipate his tactics, which proved invaluable in our approach. But perhaps the most critical aspect of Nicolle's support was her unwavering moral support. At a time when my mind was clouded by fear and confusion, her step-by-step plans and thoughtful questions helped me regain clarity. I was able to make decisions, execute them with confidence, and regain control over my life, all thanks to her guidance.”

“In my capacity as Coordinator of The Changing Family Program at Jewish Family & Child, I have had many opportunities to work with Nicolle Kopping-Pavars. With each interaction, I am consistently struck by her sincerity and candor in working for the benefit of the client. Together with her generosity of spirit and wealth of legal information and expertise, one of her primary goals is to maximize and build upon the strengths of the clients she works with. Nicolle has volunteered her time in different ways. She offers legal information to clients individually through our Free Family Law Legal Clinic as well as providing excellent legal resources and information for groups in a workshop entitled How To Achieve A Good Divorce. The compassion with which Nicolle offers separating/divorcing people is admirable. I am confident that her approach is not only thoughtful and helpful, but also deeply resonates with a potent and firm knowledge of the law.”

“Thank you very much again for what you did for us. You have been so supportive and so kind throughout this whole journey - every time we had a question you were always there to help us and answer us as soon as possible - every time we were anxious you were there to reassure us with your knowledge but also your kind words. You know, there are thousands of lawyers out there, but we could never have found one better than you - being competent is sometimes not enough, especially in a journey like ours - BEING is also very important, and since our first meeting, you have always BEEN nice, kind, supportive and have known how to talk to us to reassure and calm us. We found an angel in our surrogate and you are another angel for us... a 'legal' angel.”

“Thank you very much for making our journey to become parents a smoother one. We were not sure about all the legal aspects, but your guidance helped us at each junction, so we could focus on our baby. Many a time we contacted you regarding our doubts and you called us back each time and explained everything in detail. We are very happy with you and your staff about the entire process. We have no words to thank you enough for helping us in the journey of making our dreams come true.”

“Going through a separation is never fun nor an easy time in a person's life. With the help of Nicolle and her amazing staff, a time in my life that could've been more treacherous and sadder was made into a moment of clarity, proper love and respect. From this came forward movements towards a happy and new fresh start. When you can sit across from the table from a person that you are choosing to separate from, and walk away being able to hug each other knowing that things were dealt with in the most proper and respectful manner is all that you can ask for. Thank you Nicolle for your guidance, support and love to our entire family. The kids and I are finding our new happy path.”

“Nicolle, you made our separation so much easier and respectful. We were so full of fight and you put out the flames. You helped us to remember the focus and what's most important... our two beautiful children. Also, to remember that there was once love and respect, we had to remember that to get to a resolution. Thank you forever.”

“Lawyers are all the same I was told. Well that was proven wrong from the moment I met you Nicolle. Your kind and compassionate personality put me at ease instantly. You always took the time to answer my many questions and never made me feel like I should rush or that I was wasting your time. Very professional, very efficient and highly respectful of both parties. I'm a believer in collaborative law and it's because of you. I would highly recommend you to anyone I know. Thank you so very much for helping to get done what needed to get done in favour of us both!”

“The collaborative approach and Nicolle in particular, together with opposing counsel, brought a human element to an extremely sterile and difficult situation. The focus on mindfulness and the desire to understand my wishes and emotional well being helped ease the pain and uncertainty surrounding my separation. To be able to connect with your lawyer during a divorce is vital and I felt a real and genuine connection with Nicolle.”

“I would just like to say thank you for helping me with the separation. It was an absolute pleasure dealing with you and your staff and I am very satisfied with the outcome and with your fees. We were a good team!!”

“This course was the anchor I much needed to get back to critical self-care, without which I cannot well serve my clients or family. Nicolle's mindfulness training provides busy lawyers with a plethora of brilliant, easy to implement and sanity saving tools, and she presents it all with vulnerability, grace and compassion that is a delight to experience. I am so grateful for this invaluable work that Nicolle is doing for us as individuals and for the profession at large.”

“I am a lawyer who lives a fast-paced life. I have never particularly enjoyed meditation of any kind. Nicolle has brought me on a journey of self-discovery where I now enjoy mindfulness meditations (but only if led by her). Her calm, yet active and playful personality appeals to me on a personal level. I would strongly encourage anyone considering a mindfulness practice to reach out to Nicolle Kopping-Pavars.”

“Nicolle offers us a better way and an alternate set of choices - encouraging each of us to observe what is going on in the present moment which leads to better decision making and self-awareness. Nicolle has made it her life's work to help us understand how mindfulness protects us, helps us anticipate and understand what is happening in the moment and to remind us that mindfulness is the opposite of taking our 'one-and-only life' for granted…”

“Nicolle's devotion to the practice is apparent in her dedication and passion to the dharma. She embraces the studies wholeheartedly. Now, she inspires me as she continues to bring these practices to practitioners all over the world. If you have the chance, treat yourself to some time with Nicolle. You won't regret it!”

“I have done meditations with Nicolle Kopping-Pavars for several years with great enjoyment. Throughout this course, I have felt a significant shift in how I connect to each moment and with Nicolle's guidance and wisdom, I am on the road to peace. I am eternally grateful to Nicolle for her teaching and leadership and for helping me incorporate mindfulness into my life.”

“I was a core teacher in the 2016 Mindfulness in Law Teacher Training, held at Green Gulch Zen Center in California. Nicolle was one of 20 attendees, and I was able to get to know her and her deep commitment to bringing mindfulness and compassion training to every facet of the law. I highly recommend Nicolle as a presenter, as a teacher, as a mentor, and as a person.”